Saturday, January 10, 2015

Melbourne

Period -- 25th September – 5th October 2014

Airline -- Emirates
Depart Singapore -- 2240
Arrive Melbourne -- 0745

Travelling Companion – Bestie aka Godma C

My long awaited trip to the place where my Bestie lives. I kept a secret from Ethan till the departure evening when his Dad fetch him from school. He was so excited that he can hardly finishes his dinner. When we broke the news to him, he told his dad….

“Even though I miss you, I am missing my girl friend even more.” He was elated and started planning what he wants to bring to Melbourne.

We reached Melbourne with Ethan sleeping for about 2 hours on flight. Immigration clearance takes about 30 minutes to clear with only 4 counters. We walked out of the airport, inhaled our 1st breath of Melbourne air – GOD it smells so fresh. It was our first time to Melbourne. We struggled to make phone call at the “ten minutes pick up” for Suky & Hayley but they appeared out of nowhere.

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26th September 2014, Friday

1st Stop



DFO – Subway for lunch
We had breakfast whilst waiting for the shops to open. We went into shops like Fossils, Guess etc..

The kids had fun playing together. They played subway surfers with the two boys running whilst the girls chased after them. We panicked as we could not find the boys & they were out from our sight. Luckily the layout of the mall was straight forward with no left right turns in between, just a straight row of walkway with shops on both sides.

After DFO we headed straight to Bestie’s house & spent the rest of the evening unpacking, chatting, packing for farm stay & distributing the presents.

Bellevue Farm stay

27th September 2014, Saturday

11 of us comprising of 7 adults & 4 kiddos for the farm stay. Pretty exciting as it is the first time we are having close interaction with Suky (even though we had been friends for the past 14 years), Marc & Dennis’s parents with 3 cars heading to our destination.

Day One

The farm stay was about 6 hours drive away from Melbourne with stopovers in between for scenic viewing, photographs taking & for food.

1st stopover, Ethan woke up crying, looking for his dad & wanted to go home. A sad scene but I guessed he is just tired from all the travelling & the so called “jet lag”. Even though with Ethan being cranky I am still enjoying myself breathing in as much Melbourne air as possible. We reached the farm stay at ~ 4.00pm just in time to prepare for dinner.

Meals
Breakfast @ Bestie’s house
Toasted bread with sliced Cheddar Cheese—yummy
Somehow Australian Cheese really tasted different from the cheese we bought locally.

Lunch – Cheese, Zucchini cakes, sandwiches, carrots, Zucchini & crackers
Dinner – Prepared by Dennis’s mom
Claypot chicken rice






Everyone contributed by helping, cleaning clearing, washing, keeping & tidying up. Not a word of complaint or unhappiness. In fact, I was quite impressed by Dennis’s parents as they were very kind & understanding towards us & the boys.

There were 3 bedrooms & a lounge area with Bestie family sacrificing themselves & settled @ the lounge area. It was my first time sleeping with electric blanket that can keep us warm. Another first time...

28th September 2014, Sunday

Day Two

Farm Animals
i. Alpacas - Innie, Bazza, Fred and Monty
ii. Horses – Franny who loves carrots
iii. Camel – Alana
iv. Siamese Cat – Rani
v. Dogs – Nikki & Tess
vi. Sheep / Pigs / Goats / Cows

The kids were fortunate to be able to drive a real tractor around the field. There were split up in teams of two with the younger kids first – Marilyn & Ethan had a fun time driving the tractor.


We visited the Cheese & Chocolates factory. Milking of cows at a nearby Dairy farm where we witnessed a lot of big cows being milked by machines. It was so systematic that once they knew they were done with milking they will shake the milking device off using their hind legs, walk out from the “roundabout” & head back to the grassland queuing up.

Meals
Breakfast -- prepared by Chef Suky
Australian breakfast like bacon & eggs

Dinner -- prepared by Bestie
Steamboat

29th September 2014, Monday

Day Three
On our way back we stopped over & had Fish & Chips for lunch at the park with cold air blowing. It was a wonderful experience.




Great Ocean Road – The Twelve Apostles
The Twelve Apostles is one of Melbourne’s Tourist Attraction. I counted & I only met up with 7 Apostles. Probably along the way I missed out on some. The scenery was BEAUTIFUL & amazing weather with wind howling onto our face. We snacked Tim Tam, ate oranges, laughed @ cold jokes, gossips & took wonderful photos.





Meals
Breakfast -- prepared by Chef Suky
Pancakes

Dinner
Rice with honey chicken


30th September 2014, Tuesday

Costco with Catherine
Bestie’s friend - Cath took us to the “members” wholesale hypermarket where I bought my few 1kg bottles of CHIA seeds & Hersley chocolates.

Chemist Warehouse
We were excited to be at the warehouse stocking up vitamins & I found my favorite lip balm – Carmex.

1st October 2014, Wednesday

Queen Victoria Market
The tourist place where we bought Noggets & nuts & had our lunch at the “expensive” food court. We bought Oysters from the market & savor at the food court.





St Kilda Beach
It started to have strong wind when we reached the place. By the time we reached the beach the wind was so strong that it was blowing sand into our eyes. We cannot even open our eyes to enjoy the nice scenery letting alone stand there. As such we had to runback frantically looking for the next available shelter from the bad weather. Ethan called the strong wind – The SAND STORM.

We had coffee & pastries @ Acland Street.


Brunetti & Casino @ night with the girls
All thanks to Dennis who manages the kids at night whilst the girls can have our peace of mind having coffee & desserts enjoying each other’s company. Thank you Suky for driving us to the CBD area of Melbourne & paying extra more for the short cut via Expressway. Indeed we had a fun time visiting the Casino, having supper especially the steam oyster with XO sauce at the famous Chinese restaurant & wonderful picture taking.

2nd October 2014 Thursday

We visited by the Chocolate Factory & Wild Life Park prior to see those cute Penguins.


Philip Island
The drive was approximately 2 hours to the island. Along the way we did stopped by some café for drinks & break. The weather was very cold on that day. Before we went in, I actually wore 4 layers of clothes.

It was not a very long wait for the penguins to return. But it was drizzling very cold & the penguins are quite small. They swim back in groups & run all together back to the shore as if they knew someone is looking at them.

As memories for the kids, I bought them a penguin each with Marilyn & Ethan had the same one & Melody had a pink fairy like penguin.

3rd October 2014 Friday

A relaxing day when the kids play at home whilst the girls visited the market preparing for dinner.

Dandenong Market
We “rob” the nuts stall with Honey Macadamia Nuts, the dairy store with Cheddar Cheese & the souvenir shop with aprons coasters & bibs.




BBQ at night
A double birthday celebration for Ethan & Dennis whose birthday falls on the same day having the same zodiac sign – Mouse. It was again my first time playing Piñata. Bestie bought Ethan a football Piñata & she filled it up with love, light sticks & snacks. Godma C bought both boys a cake each. The kids had a wonderful time taking turns to burst the Piñata & barbecuing marsh-mellow after dinner.

4th October 2014 Saturday

Tulip Farm
A sunny day with cold winds blowing across the beautiful field filled with flowers with people snapping photos. A relaxing day with quality time spent fearing that time will tickle past us fast.





5th October 2014 Sunday
-- Day of Departure
Suky brought us to the local Vietnamese restaurant in Chinatown for breakfast with a heavy heart. We were so reluctant to leave the place.

Suky & Hayley sent us to the airport. Ethan cried on the way to airport. I can only cheered him up by telling him his dad is waiting for him back in Singapore despite having a lousy feel inside me. Once we alighted from the car, we bided good bye, loaded the luggage onto the cart & I headed straight into the departure hall without looking back as looking back will only bring each other more sadness.

Nevertheless we had a blast & totally immersed ourselves in the great companion we had. We had brought back wonderful memories on top of Ethan’s bag of toys & clothes. As much as we wanted to stay longer we are not able to as we each have our own life to lead & of course back to the unwanted reality.

Memories of Melbourne will stay in our minds.



Friday, November 7, 2014

Mom's 6th Letter to you - Belated

Dear Ethan

I am confident you had a blast on your 6th Birthday as we spent your birthday with a few of mommy’s precious friends in a foreign country. It was something mommy had been waiting for.



Picking stones



K2 Communication book

Papa bear in 2013 yr end concert






With Tess
 
A happening & eventful year from losing my dad to being parent volunteer, P1 registration, Melbourne and year end concert.


February this year, I lost my father, your grandfather in an almost zero battle with GOD shortly after Chinese New Year. He fell & even left without bidding us goodbye. I was filled with hatred for my devotion towards GOD. However I am glad my father did impact on your life as even till this day you are telling me you remembered your last hug & last goodbye with him. REMEMBER Ah Gong will always remember you as one of his favorite grandchild.
Soccer Attire



Bowling



As we progress to the later part of year, you became very vocal & always have your own set of what you want & love to do. You began to challenge my instructions to you. Well I reckon this is part of the growing up process. I should be happy that you are behaving like a normal kid instead of becoming mommy’s “stereotype kid”.

You are excited about going to Primary School not because you love studies but given the thought that you will have pocket money to buy things. You became more sensible & sensitive towards my feelings. Sometimes I wonder if I had been too strict on you.

Roadsweeper




Your love for cook books, cooking shows & baking had motivated me to do more baking & cooking at home. You astonish me with your vast interest in this hobby. Every time we bring you to the bookshop or library, you will request either natural disasters or cooking baking books. You hardly touch on books that are suitable for your age.

Baking Class in Fidgets
Sulking at the airport
Family Photo





Sunburnt
  

Birthday Boy





Kissing Alpaca
Happy 6th Birthday! I really hoped your dreams & wishes will come true. LOVE YOU!!

Tuesday, September 9, 2014

200 Days


Today marks the 200th day since you left us. There is still no sign of you appearing in our dreams. We had not forgotten you nor had we stopped tearing. Have you been reading the papers we bought for you weekly?

At any time I looked into my phone photo gallery, it never failed to flash back those days when I sit at the waiting area outside the ICU with tears flowing down like a damaged tap.

** Flash flash **

On the first night you were admitted, a Malay Uncle came & told me “GOD must have his reasons why it happened. Whether you survived or you decided to leave us, it is his will.” It definitely sounded comforting.


等 到 失 去 了, 我 才 学 会 珍 惜….

Monday, July 21, 2014

Five Months

Dun ask me how I survived these five months, I just did it. I had been waiting for you in my dreams for the past 151 days pa..

Hoped you can update me on yourself soon.

Thursday, June 5, 2014

Happy Birthday Pa !

五月初八
爸爸, 生日快乐 !!
对不起, 等到您过世了, 我们才记得您的农历生日
希望您过得很开心.…
我们大家都很挂念你
快快走进我的梦..

Sunday, June 1, 2014

100 days

Pa, how have you been? We are missing you tremendously. It is scary to know you are alive this minute & the next minute you are gone. Loved ones sobbed, cried & mourned except for one. As days passed for some, the pain seemed totally eliminated but for me, the wounds are so raw & seems like yesterday you left me.

The Saturday before your departure, we had an argument over Lao Gong’s Chinese name -- 卿 . You definitely know more than I do. Why did I even yell @ you? My mandarin just sucks it off. When we said good bye, for some reason I felt weird. Ethan ran to hug you goodbye. Till this day, Ethan says “Mommy I will not forget the last hug that I had with your papa”. For me, I cannot erase your last wave goodbye to me when I was waiting for taxi @ the void deck.

I regretted for not rushing over when Jiejie called me to inform me you fell. I did not even talk to you before you fell into coma. I cannot bring myself to think how scared you are when the doctors hover you at the A & E ward, how the doctors plugged in all the various machines on your body and how you are being wheeled into the Operating Theatre. I recalled the 3 days when I sit at the waiting area hoping miracles will happen. But it never happened.

WHERE ARE YOU? Are you still at NUH ICU? Are you happy being with new friends? Are you in Heaven? Are you lonely? I hated the thought of you being alone & thrift for people around you. Did you manage to find your Dad & Lao Gong? So many things I wanted to ask you but where are you??

The kids saw a moth outside the door on Friday morning & ah ma says you are visiting the house. The kids keep calling ah gong ah gong…. My tears just flowed uncontrollably.